Few tips on how to be more confident
Whether it is a public speaking or one on one conversation your first impression will determine if people will see you as a weaker or as a leader. I believe all of you reading this post have some kind of idol, leader, person who you admire for their ability to influence people with their confidence. Have you ever wandered how they are doing it? After interviewing many world class leaders I have listed number of simple rules they all follow that make huge impact on their image.
But before I will share with you these nuggets I would like to start from the basics. I repeat it very often and this time will remind you same thing. Mindset is everything. You must believe in something first before it will manifest in your life. You are not confident because you are great speaker, you are great speaker because you are confident. You are not confident because you close a lot of sales, you close a lot of sales because you are confident. So many people think the opposite.
Let me share you with you how to gain confidence.
So rule number one is deciding to STEP UP. But how do you do that? Well when you walk into the room have a posture, stand straight, have big smile on your face. When people see your smile their perception is something good is going on in this person’s life. Just because you smile!
Yout handshake matters! When you give a weak handshake people will think you have no confidence at all so always give a firm handshake! Confident people always do that.
The other thing is an eye contact. I know that these are small things but believe me they do work on your favour all the time. So often when you meet people they are looking down or they looking away. Don’t do that, because people immediately will perceive you as less confident. Be confident to look someone straight in the eyes.
Project confidence in your voice. Many reserches proven that people who speaks louder are more confident. So whenever you speak, up your voice a little bit. That small thing will help you being perceived more confident.
I want you to have a mindset that you are not walking into the room, you fill it from the floor up to ceiling with positive energy.
When you apply all of these simple rules you will start boosting your confidence to the highest levels! Apply it today and notice how people start perceiving you as very confident person.
Watch this quick video to learn about boosting your self esteem.
So as you can see you don’t have to watch all of the leaders and just wish being like them. Step up righ now and believe that you can be that magnetic leader as well. You can do it. You also can become top leader in your company!
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I wish you best success!
Karol Kubiak
Karol Kubiak
P.S. Today’s dose of inspirational quotes is here. Enjoy!
“Be humble in your confidence, yet courageous in your character” – Melanie Koulouris
“Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice” – Steve Jobs
“The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are affraid to do”
“He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life” – Muhammad Ali
“Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how others see you”
“If people are trying to bring you down it only means you are above them”
“Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back. They are behind for a reason”
“People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it”
“Those who spend their time looking for the faults in others, usualy spend no time to correct their own”
“Once you let go of negative people, the positive ones appear”
“Haters will see you walk on water and say it’s because you can’t swim”
“Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice” – Steve Jobs
“The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are affraid to do”
“He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life” – Muhammad Ali
“Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how others see you”
“If people are trying to bring you down it only means you are above them”
“Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back. They are behind for a reason”
“People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it”
“Those who spend their time looking for the faults in others, usualy spend no time to correct their own”
“Once you let go of negative people, the positive ones appear”
“Haters will see you walk on water and say it’s because you can’t swim”
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